HOW TO START OVER (15 Steps )

 

START OVER

Just because it takes a longer than you want it doesn't mean it's not happening trust the process you know and at some point in your life you could have heard someone say it's past the time to start over this is the manner by which my life is going to be currently and sometimes we feel so stuck that we start to believe there's absolutely not a chance forward well toss these negative thoughts out to the wind because it's never actually Past the point where it is possible to start over the fact that it's taking excessively long or feels like you're stuck doesn't mean it's game over this article is about to show you 15 ways you can start over and give yourself a fresh start so we should get right to it

Number one accept the past

hello here's the thing unless you have the ability to control time which i'm guessing you don't there's really nothing you can do to change the past so fixating And thinking about it all the time would simply fill you with regret and this regret will in turn make it challenging for you to face the present so rather than sit down and wallow in the events of your past remember there's nothing you can do to change it you just have to learn from it and let it go the past is the past and what matters currently is the present and the future therefore focus on the things you can change and accept the reality of your History forgive yourself come on everyone makes mistakes of all shapes and sizes however you must stop beating yourself up done with this you must learn and continue on

Number two a part of number one is reflecting on what went wrong in the past

presently this is the only positive side of your past experiences it usually comes with a lesson a new encounter and a valuable chance to make yourself a better Person it's important to sit back take a glance at everything that happened in the past and assess the situations to discover what went wrong then when you truly do make a conscious work to make sure that it doesn't happen at any point in the future your past experiences also offer a potential chance to see things from an outside perspective you can see clearly the way in which you should have approached a certain task or a goal and Then make sure you do it the correct way sometime later

Number three identify your goals

one of the most compelling ways to start over is to appropriately identify your goals we sometimes tend to not appropriately define our goals which in turn could affect how rapidly we achieve them remember one of the main qualities of an achievable goal is specificity and this means your goals have to be clearly defined identifying your goals will also Assist you with seeing the changes that you have to make in request to work on your life so to begin you can record your goals in a journal and then separate them into long-term and short-term cases next then you create a clear-cut set of tasks which will result in success for each goal this way you haven't only defined your goals you've also created a series of defined tasks which when Finished will lead to inevitable success and master tip always remind yourself of these goals each day and you'll see the way motivated this will make you feel

Number four find out what's working and what's not

one of the reasons we want to start over is the fact that certain things aren't working yet most times we don't know exactly what well here's where it gets precarious how would you fix an Issue when you have no idea what's causing it well fortunately the human mind is so brilliant all it needs to fix this issue is a couple of moments of reflection consistently yes to understand what could be going wrong take some time consistently to reflect on each and every activity that drove you up to that point and see which of these activities needs improvement or adjustment in fact you can adopt an Entirely new routine especially assuming you discover that your entire routine needs a revamp and most importantly in the event that this doesn't work out don't feel down on yourself missteps are a necessary part of development instead see them as a vital learning opportunity because just like you guessed it you won't make the same mistake again

Number five leave your comfort zone

good gracious here's one that requires a tad of discomfort however hello leaving your Comfort zone is perhaps one of the most important ways to start over try something new accomplish something that you normally wouldn't do and try out some new experiences because outside of your comfort zone is where the development happens did you even realize that trying new things is a sure way to stimulate brain activity interestingly enough this leads to further developed creativity and motivation yet you understand what's far superior New experiences fill you with a renewed sense of purpose and you never realize this new path may very well be the right one

Number six give yourself a pat on the back when you try out new things

natural you'd struggle with them and this struggle could make it seem like you're not improving in the slightest sense yet that's completely false you shouldn't believe your progress may be slow yet that doesn't mean it's not happening give Yourself some credit for how far you've come you've been doing an awfully great work and you deserve a pat on the back for that encouraging yourself will assist you with building self-esteem and it'll push you to want to become better remember to monitor your progress and acknowledge how far you've come each time you want to give up

Number seven take a break

in the event that you're a robot who doesn't have to rest and recharge then this doesn't Apply to you yet you're not a robot you're a human being with feelings and emotions and taking a break should definitely be a part of your starting over process taking a break isn't giving up no not close at all taking a break actually helps you to disconnect for some time and continue to go it helps you to see how far you've come how far you must go and importantly a break fills you with a sense of peace and calm and this is Important for self-evaluation and assessment breaks are essential as far as we're concerned as humans rest and recharge that's the mantra

Number eight expect setbacks

is there a human being somewhere on the planet who can boast of never experiencing a setback regardless of how little uh we don't think so setbacks are a necessary part of life and they happen to everyone including individuals who Are looking to start over perhaps starting over for you means getting a new work or moving to a new country whatever it is you have to understand that it's totally commonplace to have an anxious or scared outlook on this move or stressed that you would encounter setbacks anyway the one thing you should remember is this don't allow these factors to keep you down the second thing to remember don't allow these factors to drive You should be driven by your goals and nothing else not mistakes not setbacks or fear yet your goals

Number nine gain a fresh perspective

to break free from your current situation you must change your perspective on how you see things have you at any point stopped to wonder why you continue failing at something might it at any point be because you think of your limitations in a certain way or because you approach tasks from the same perspective Gaining a fresh perspective allows you to explore from an entirely new point of view and who knows you may very well discover something that will change the tide of your life

Number 10 recognize the challenges

challenges can be daunting and extremely hard to tackle yet we should see it like this will challenges be this troublesome assuming that you learn beforehand that you would be facing them Definitely not take for instance you and your friends are camping in a forest known for its population of snakes now these snakes will undoubtedly be a challenge to you and your friends yet knowing about it beforehand means you can prepare yourself against attacks simply put this is the manner by which life works in the event that you identify the challenges you faced last time you're more prepared to face them the second time you try and to keep a Better track of these challenges record them on paper and concoct three to four possible solutions this way you have a strong understanding of the issue and exactly the way that you can fix it

Number 11 remember your values

we've established in previous videos that your values define you as a person however does this mean that your values cannot change definitely not when you make the decision to start over you really should identify your values and to see in the event that you could have to make some changes and as you identify your values also use this chance to check in with your priorities have they changed throughout the long term or are they still pretty much the same do they matter as much as they did before the answers to these questions will assist you with defining your priorities

Number 12 make the decision

At this point you've recognized what went wrong the challenges you faced your values priorities and what you want to do to start over well here's where you really want to make groundbreaking decisions is it a new work a new country an entirely different field whatever it is you have to make the conscious decision to let it all out it could also be that starting over presents you with a number of choices and in making a decision you should remember that you must choose a Path that's in line or similar to your values and something that's an upgrade from the last plan also choosing to do a certain thing isn't set in stone in the event that it doesn't end up actually working or feel right to you have the chance to start over once again this time differently

Number 13 find a mentor

it's totally fine to admit that you can't carry on with life on your own it's fine to accept the fact that you really want Someone to teach and guide you even the greatest leaders were students at one point regardless of what your situation is there's a colossal chance that somebody's been in a similar situation which is the reason having mentors is an important part of starting over your mentor could be someone who's achieved everything you've at any point dreamed of or someone you believe understands the circumstances of your situation and who has conquered this in the past having a mentor provides you With guidance motivation and someone who you can be accountable to and in case you're thinking they have to be someone you already realize your mentors can be in fact anyone you consider fit to direct you through the restarting process and if you want to hasten the process of finding a mentor you can reach out to a holistic mentor or start with a simple google search and find one close to you in minutes

Number 14 Be positive

starting over can be challenging yet it wouldn't help assuming that you approach it with a negative mentality instead see it as a confident adventure into the obscure with a smile of confidence plastered on your face be positive let yourself know that things are going to end up fine because they will and all you have to do is make all the difference for trying keep and success will be yours just give it somewhat more Time

Number 15 set new goals

starting over means setting new goals and making active plans to pursue them and as you set these goals remember the factors we mentioned earlier in this video they have to be specific explored from a new perspective and they could also reflect your core values or assist you with developing a new set of values setting goals gives you a sense of direction in your sojourn and so having A clear sense of where you want to be will increase your performance starting over shouldn't be this impossible adventure and regardless of whether most individuals think it is who says we can't make something happen and that brings us to the furthest limit of the video yet since you stuck with us this long of course there's a bonus

Number 16 take action

this point you're back from the Drawing board and you've made your important decisions the following and final step is to take action just let it all out hello go with a positivity filled mindset and you are sure to reach the stars we here at inspirationhack will be cheering you on constantly have you at any point had to start over how could it feel what important lessons did you learn share with the local area in the comments section all about it because you sharing Helps everyone thanks for spending some of your valuable time with us today