Are You HAPPY
You know everyone's got a
different thought of what happiness is and this loose definition can make it
hard to understand people and relate with them some people find happiness in
relationships and a contented family While others secure it in their positions
growth of wealth and Freedom but through it all there are subtle signs that are
common amongst cheerful people and while happiness cannot be measured it Can be
noticed
Number one they value life
blissful people understand the
importance of life and they seek value and equilibrium in it when they say life
is short they don't see anything negative in that frame of mind instead it
gives them a reason to carry on with their life to the fullest cheerful people
get up in the first part of the day and count themselves fortunate for another
day they Know that anything can happen tomorrow so they try not to waste there
today by doing things that they love without regret
Number two they don't desire people's attention
cheerful people can feel great
about themselves without being in the spotlight they're self-aware and
considerate of others needs that's the reason the typical Hollywood domineering
jerk is the person who's troubled but thrives on Causing other people to feel
miserable they don't treat people like their kings and insist on encouraging
them all the time people who are content with their life accept attention with
restraint understanding its Frailty and absence of one of a kind value to put
it simply they don't demand the admiration of others because their own
admiration is sufficient
Number three they spend money
wisely despondent people think
money can purchase happiness but it's a long way from the truth And they wind
up purchasing things that only have temporary gratification but a cheerful
person won't be stingy with their money either they just spend it on things
that matter to them most when people are miserable they tend to spend their
money on things that they accept would cure that unhappiness while those who
are already blissful invest their money or purchase things that can be of
actual use or value to them in fact you can presumably get a smart thought of
how blissful Someone is based on the kinds of things they purchase
Number four they listen to their own feelings
happiness is a state that we can
accomplish by understanding our desires and current position like other human
emotions it's mostly affected by one's perception of self one thing you'll
notice about cheerful people is they're in touch with themselves so while
pursuing important choices they consider both rationality And their feelings
knowing that making rational judgments without help from anyone else cannot
result in happiness they strike a harmony between sentiment and reason they
also take exhortation from their friends and family close friends and
authorities yet they still settle on critical choices on their own
Number five they're humble and kind
despondent people are usually
egotistical and devilish to those around them cheerful people are well the
exact opposite They're usually humble in any event, when they're in a better
position than others and they're kind even to strangers have you at any point
noticed your blissful friends that are always ready to help you out on things
you don't know well they'll get you through whatever it is without causing you
to feel like you owe them for it cheerful people wind up having lots of friends
and acquaintances because of their persona
Number six they take responsibility for their actions
Tell someone is blissful just by
how they own up to their actions they do things they're glad for and glad to
guard it just like every other person they all commit errors they can be
languid sometimes and feel down but in the end they won't shift the fault for
their weaknesses onto any other individual on the off chance that a cheerful
person offends you it'll be more than able to apologize and admit their
mistakes without any fuss
Number seven they surround themselves With positive things
cheerful people make their
surroundings match their emotions from their preference for light-colored
clothes to the type of music they listen to they're obsessed with light-hearted
and motivating things they also stay with the of people who have a positive
outlook on things they're ready to get positive energy and stay blissful even
through trying times and not in the toxic positivity kind of way more like In
the everything is temporary this too shall pass kind of way
Number eight they are supportive
Cheerful People rarely get
jealous of those around them they're satisfied with themselves and their
ability and they hope to help other people progress and develop that's the
reason you can tell whether your companion is blissful or not since they've got
control over their lives they're willing to help other people become better
versions of themselves when a companion brings up some Great news blissful
people will congratulate and celebrate with them they won't be sitting there
wondering what about me and there certainly won't be any condescending remarks
Number nine they are energetic
and put the effort into their
work cheerful people don't have that stuff of emotions that would burden you
and make you awaken with the desire never to work consistently is a blessing
and they Want to use it to the fullest they're typically extremely energetic
and motivated and turn out to be consistent with their tasks a blissful
collaborator will always be a pleasure to work with in any event, when they
don't know something their eagerness to learn will make them easily teachable
Number 10 doesn't focus on material wealth
our society ties to wealth and
material security to happiness but money doesn't actually give you joy it
brings You comfort blissful people understand and know the things that fulfill
them so that when you ask them what's the thing they want they never really
mention things or money sure it'll be a plus to them but it's not their primary
objective for Cheerful People material wealth is only a fraction of the things
that are important to them and they'll often choose friendship their friends
and family or treasured experiences over the opportunity to bring in some extra
money
Number 11. they feel fulfilled and purposeful
ask your blissful companion what
would you like to do you're at risk for getting an endless energetic expose on
their plans cheerful people know what they want and regardless of how large or
complicated things get they know their purpose and work toward it through all
the chaos around them they typically have pleasant thoughts and aren't easily
discouraged with regards to matters of their growth The dictionary defines
fulfillment as the achievement of something desired so's it's easy to see the
reason why Blissful People typically feel fulfilled
Number 12 they have Carefree smiles
a smile is the first and most
obvious indication that someone is cheerful when you meet a blissful person for
the first time you can typically tell right away assuming that they are to be
sure actually blissful we instinctively try to measure others moods by taking a
gander at their faces yes anyone Can counterfeit a smile when they're sad but
it's never really as certifiable and carefree as blissful people do it take a
gander at the eyes the eyes Won't ever lie
Number 13. they don't overdo the alcohol ism
is an issue in our society today
because most people are upset about themselves or their position in life they
resort to getting excessively smashed or high to take off from that truth so
there's almost not a great explanation for someone who is really and
consistently glad to Become addicted alcohol all by itself is not a terrible
thing and cheerful people truly do know how to responsibly have fun with it but
since they're not drowning away sorrow they know how to respect their limit and
stay within it
Number 14. they're satisfied with their appearance
blissful people simply don't
chase after beauty standards when they search in the mirror they love what they
see and they accept their imperfections are what Compel them extraordinary you
never see a cheerful person gripe about their skin being too light or too dim
or their teeth not being as perfect as they need them to be a cheerful person
understands the things that can't be changed and to transform they'll get to
deal with getting it going
Number 15. they know how to enjoy moments
of happiness cheerful people know
that they're blissful and they Relish at these times even with Every one of the
activities and bustle of the day they find things that carry a smile to their
face it's easy to get overpowered and dissatisfied by happenings that you can't
control and in these situations Cheerful People remind themselves it'll
eventually end and figuratively Count Their Blessings there are numerous
veritable cheerful moments in life but not everyone can recognize them or
notice them at the time happiness lies in our sincere feelings romantic
relationships and numerous Other forms the possibility of Happiness Is Still
poorly characterized by a lot of people some folks think it should happen
naturally While others accept you have to work for it but contrary to prevalent
thinking happiness is a habit rather than a personality trait you have to be
careful with how you spend your time and intentionally choose what you focus on